Day after day, year after year, parents kiss their children goodbye as they head off to grade school. This June, 560 Wakefield seniors hope to receive their diplomas while walking across a stage in a moment of fame. Graduating high school can be emotional, and for those heading off to college in the fall, it can mean leaving behind your hometown to embark on a new and exciting journey.

Each student has a unique high school experience, but it is safe to say that all of us have changed immensely during our years here. As freshmen, we were timid and everything was new, sophomore and junior year were times for growth and unnecessary drama, but as senior year comes full circle, we find ourselves coming into our own. All of the early mornings and late nights might have been for the academic studies, but do we really remember who was in George Washington’s cabinet? Our parents sent us to school all these years with the hopes of infusing our brains with mathematics, English, science, history, and maybe even foreign languages, but what have we really learned in high school?

1. Stressing over that one bad grade on that one test is so not worth it. Maybe that grade brings you down a few points, but the constant stress is only harming you, and you are better off just studying harder next time. Plus, it is necessary to have a balance between work and play. Otherwise, you will be left with regrets in both high school and college.
2. Sucking up does not make you a “teacher’s pet.” It cannot hurt to get on your teacher’s (or professor’s) good side, especially if it is a difficult class. It could be the difference between an A and a B.
3. Not everyone is going to like you, and they do not have to. There is no need to impress anyone; being yourself is more valued and respected. On the other hand, if you aren’t a fan of someone, don’t be a bully. Learn to tolerate their flaws, and as a result, you will become a more patient person.
4. As tempting as it is, procrastinating is never a good idea. Waiting until the last minute in academics, extra-curricular activities, work, or anything else will not result in a good outcome.
5. Hard work pays off. That feeling of accomplishment is unparalleled, and no matter what it takes to succeed at something, it will always be worth it.
6. Believe in yourself. As cliché as it sounds, it is very accurate. If you don’t believe in yourself and your abilities, who will? If you don’t try, you won’t succeed, and if you don’t think you can, you probably won’t be able to.
7. Your parents ARE your biggest supporters. I used to fight with my mom on a daily basis–that was until I figured out that everything she does is for my benefit. Even if you don’t always agree with their parenting choices, you have to believe they have your best interests in mind.
8. Social media can be fun, but it is important to be aware of what you put out into the universe. Once it is on Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, or Snapchat, it remains there forever, even if you delete it. Colleges and employers can access your social media accounts and potentially reject you based on the character you display on those accounts.
9. Friendships (and relationships) require effort. You get what you give, and I have learned to invest more time and energy into my friendships in order to keep those friends close, especially those who I do not see on a daily basis.
10. Having integrity is more than honorable. In the end, only you will be harmed from your lack of effort or your decision to take the easy way out. Be honest with others, but more importantly, be honest with yourself.